Just To Share...

Have you guys in Ipoh visited "Filling Station ~ Coffee Bar & Bistro" located in Greentown? I just came back from there with my Wei for supper. This is the 2nd time I went there. The environment is fine and the food too is not bad. But just don't know why......*sigh*

I hardly could find customers more than 2 tables in here since my last two visits! Sometimes I do have a pity on them. *thinking of own experience* Even though how hard those people work, luck is just not by their side. Same like me lor, had dedicated so much on business but failed to get what I deserved. ~ another centre branch of mine was sold, leaving only main centre. Can't 'wan sek', that's why start blogging to earn.

I strongly believe that running a business really does rely on own fate!! Do you all agree with me?

What A Tired Day!

Today is a tired day even I didn't go for yoga class. What did I do then? I went to Jusco for lunch with friends and then I shopped around for some skin care products. I'm using Loreal products on face lifting, wrinkles smoothening and brown spot corrector. Woman over 30s like me is very particular on trying to prevent the ageing process....ha..scared no more so called, "mummy in vain" mar.... LOL

After that, I went to Ampang centre for cleaning up. Why? Sad to tell that I have no more branch in Chemor. It was sold recently. What to do? Still facing loss there since 3 years of running it. I really have hard feeling on that but when thinking over all those days where I was under pressure in trying to push the centre up, I feel a bit relief now.

We all partners work together in tidying the store room and arranging all books and shelves neatly for almost 3 hours! Till hands and bodies were shaking because starving liao...From now onwards, we partners are back in one piece under the same roof of centre again!

Tag? It's Fun!

Wow...what's this? Me, being taged? Ok, since it looks fun, am now going to finish this up!! Thanks anyway, Cutie Princess Mummy............

1. Are your parents married or divorced?
Married happily for 32 years lor....

2. Are you a vegetarian?
Will never be! I can't live without 'FISH' !

3. Do you believe in Heaven?
Yes, i believe it's a beautiful place for people with good deeds.

4. Have you ever come close to dying?
Nope.

5. What jewellery do you wear 24/7?
Necklace, earrings and wristlet.

6. Favourite time of day?
Everytime when I hear my kids calling me 'mummy' when I'm back from work. Sounds very pampered.

7. Do you eat the stems of broccoli?
Yes. Why not?

8. Do you wear makeup?
Sometimes, especially going to 'wet'! Start to love colours since I bought so many from Korea last year.

9. Ever have plastic surgery?
No need ar? I appreciate how I was borned....^^

11. What do you wear to bed?
T-shirt and long pant.

12. Have you ever done anything illegal?
Speeding, breaking traffic lights, ....... all about on the road.

13. Can you roll your tongue?
My girl taught me so recently.

14. Do you tweeze your eyebrows?
Yes, every time I have facial. If I really cannot stand to see "dry grass" on my face, then I'll do it myself.

15. What kind of sneakers?
Not for me!

16. Do you believe in Abortions?
When there is no other choices.

17. What is your Hair color?
Dark purple with red highlights. Will dye hair in few days....... :p

18. Future child’s name?
Haven't thought of it.

19. Do you snore?
I don't think so!

20. If you could go anywhere in the world where would it be?
Paris, Italy, US,.....all those romantic countries with hubby.

21. Do you sleep with stuffed animals?
Will never!

22. If you won the lottery, what would you do first?
Of course quickly go get money and keep it safely in my personal bank. Then only I'll plan out on how to enjoy it. Will give partly to parents and IL lor....

23. Gold or silver?
Can it be white gold?

24. Hamburger or hot dog?
Hamburger.

25. If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
I really don't hope for that day to come! :p

26. City, beach or country?
City coz more excitement.

27. What was the last thing you touched?
Keyboard and mouse lor....

28. Where did you eat last?
A shop famous for its bean sprout and chicken.....'ipoh ngar choy gai'

29. When’s the last time you cried?
2 weeks ago because quarrel with hubby... *wanting to sob*

30. Do you read blogs?
Everyday and night.

31. Would you ever go out dressed like the opposite sex?
No need. I love to be dressed like a pretty lady.

32. Ever been involved with the police?
A few times. Never read the road sign properly and went to the wrong lane....

33. What’s your favourite shampoo conditioner and soap?
Loreal.

4. Do you talk in your sleep?
Very seldom.

35. Ocean or pool?
Pool is better.

36. So, who has the original missing questions?
Huh??

37. Who would you take on a ménage à trois for a dirty weekend?
These words sound familiar! But still dunno to answer....

38. Window seat or aisle?
Window seat.

39. Ever met anyone famous?
Can't remember....

40. Do you feel that you’ve had a truly successful life?
Not really but sometimes I do feel that I'm a failure.... aihhhh

41. Do you twirl your spaghetti or cut it?
I don't like spaghetti but I think I'll twirl it coz I always see it from TV.

42. Ricki Lake or Oprah Winfrey?
No choice, Oprah Winfrey lor coz I just know her.

43. Basketball or Football?
Neither of them.

44. How long do your showers last?
If just plain body bath, it takes around 10mins. If have to wash hair then add 10mins more.

45. Automatic or do you drive a stick?
Automatic la, of course.

46. Cake or ice cream?
Ice-cream! Ice-cream!

47. Are you self-conscious?
Most of the time.

48. Have you ever drank so much you threw up?
It happened before I got married! Beer mixed with stout and cooler some more....wow..can't imagine!!

49. Have you ever given money to a beggar?
Yes, I have, when I saw those with broken legs or arms, especially old folks!

50. Have you been in love?
Very deeply in love with hubby lor while 'pak tor' moments

51. Where do you wish you were?
Lying in bed, look for "Chow Gong"!

52. Are you wearing socks?
No.

53. Have you ever ridden in an ambulance?
Luckily no.

54. Can you tango?
Have interest on it but just have no partners for me to learn together.

55. Last gift you received?
A watch from hubby as Christmas present.

56. Last sport you played?
I just take up yoga.

57. Things you spend a lot of money on?
Children and own clothings, make up and skin care products, some more now CNY is coming, have to go for hair done and pedicure......too many to list down.

58. Where do you live?
Pasir Puteh, Ipoh.

59. Where were you born?
Ipoh.

60. Last wedding attended?
My hubby's best friend's wedding.

61. Spit or swallow?
It depends wor....what type of food it is??

62. Favorite position?
Lying on my side, hugging favourite bolster.

63. Most hated food(s)?
Oily food.

64. What’s your least fav.?
Being scolded. Who likes to be then?

65. Can you sing?
Very well. It's my hobby. When are we going to karaoke again?

66. Last person you instant messaged?
Hubby.

67. Last place you went on holiday?
KL with family.

68. Favourite regular drink?
Old Town White Coffee.

69. Current Song?
Very quiet here le...

70. Tag 3 friends:
Shirley
Jason
Sue

Mother Lied To Father

When I was having dinner at home, my daddy told me that my mum lied to him today. I was so curious. Daddy then pointed at the bathroom.

Daddy: Have you noticed that the mirror is gone missing?

I : Yeah, what happened? ~ can hear mum was grinning...

Daddy: Your mum has broken it but she dared not tell the truth at the first place.

I : Wow...so strong ya...how come??

Daddy: Guess what? She broke it when trying to kill a mosquito. JUST because a mosquito, she cracked the mirror! Luckily she didn't fall down coz running too hard.....

I : Aiyooo..why need to lie? Mum, you always grumble and scold daddy. You shouldn't be afraid of daddy...... ha ha...

That's their life for this funny couple. They are always happy with each other. May my life as happy as they are.

Outing At Rum Jungle

I haven't been updating my blog since Saturday ya.. Stayed at MIL house in Chemor for 2 nights. I had a date with hubby last Saturday night while Wei was in Chemor with MIL, in the mean time Zhen Nam followed my parents.

That was my first time to Rum Jungle. My hubby knows I want to go there long long time. He was trying to match-make his good friend with a pretty girl, looks like "Shu Qi" type. Wow, I like the place. Beautiful environment, with live band, crowded with pretty ladies (but no handsome young men)... :p Most families, with children as young as 2 years old have dinner there. Can say that it is something like one-stop cafe, pub and bistro. For those who want to see photos of that place, you can always link to my friend's site here (4 Jan 2007 post). Hmm.. I'll bring my children there too next time.

I drank quite a lot of beer that night. Of course it is considered very less if compared last time before marriage. Now, I'm quite weak on it. Just around 5 glasses, I felt a bit dizzy and sleepy already. The thing is, that was the night that hubby and I ........ mmmm....since more than half a year. Trying to build relationship again mar.... both have to work hard lo....

The poor thing, I purged few times and wanted to vomit in that middle of night. Too much gas inside my stomach, maybe.....getting old lor.... yekk..I really prefer Kampai or red wine better....

Men Gone Crazy After Drinking!

Have you all seen people going crazy like this? Where do you all think we were? We were at E-Box Karaoke last night, celebrating my friend's birthday. Guess who's the birthday boy. These men includes hubby, finished up almost 8 jars of beer and ended up with dancing and hopping around like drunk 'monkeys' in the room. This guy with a mic there will start to perform, once he starts singing "狂野之城" ~ a song by Aaron Kwok. Of course, the rest will dance, will scream, will laugh, will undress, will.....a lots more which I can' remember at all.

I considered it a fun and enjoyable moment with close friends. But, it turned up a bit embarrassing at the end of the night. They have gone too 'high' till they started splashing and pouring beer and juices at each other, mics and remote control were 'flying' everywhere. O My God!! They couldn't stop themselves even we, ladies yelling at them to stop playing. The room was topsy turvy. Mics and remote control were broken. The floor and even the wall were totally wet!

We were thinking of leaving at light speed, but the waiters and manager stopped us. So 'pai seh', no choice lo, have to pay compensation before we left. Hope that the authorities will not blacklist us....LOL.

Why Not A Try On PediaSure Complete?

Had you ever have a child who is a picky eater and refuses to eat? No worry, I have something excellent here to introduce. PediaSure Complete is not a cow's milk actually. It is specially formulated with a unique vegetable oil blend that includes high oleic sunflower oil, soy oil and MCT (Medium-chain triglycerides) oil. MCTs are more easily digested and better absorbed. It is a ready source of abundant and rapidly available energy for children to catch-up on growth and physical activity. PediaSure Complete is suitable for children age between 1 - 10. It has two flavours to be chosen, either Vanilla or Chocolate.

As for me, I encounter some problems on my son's diet. He likes to eat but he doesn't seem to eat much. He has a habit of spitting out food after pushing in the bits into his mouth. He just doesn't swallow food much. He looks so skinny and tiny by his age. I think he's just around 10kg even he's already 21 months old.

I then started buying PediaSure Complete for my son because it is highly recommended by doctors. In my opinion, a child who has good digestion and absorption capability will have strong immune system. What's more? PediaSure Complete comes with combination of essential vitamins, minerals, protein, carbohydrates, fat and FOS (a vital dietary fiber) + Bifidus (a beneficial bacteria) to support healthy gut function.

My son is now gaining weight after consuming PediaSure Complete for a few months and I'm happy to see his big tummy now. I introduce it to my girl too. She is a great eater but she gets sick a lot. I find her healthier than ever, at least not seeing doctor each month!! Besides, both of my children are lactose intolerance. I find PediaSure Complete a quality supplement which suits them well.

Life Is Precious

I feel really sad to read such a news about two young ladies committed suicide on last Saturday. They were just 18 and 21 years old who lived in Klebang Jaya, Ipoh. Why did they choose to end up their life? They were very young and quite pretty too. Who will be the victims behind this tragedy? Of course the 21-year-old woman's little daughter who is just 1 1/2 years old, currently staying with her grandma in Kanthan, Chemor.

From the updated news today, I found that the above case is now being treated as a murder case. It is reported that these girls were being blackmailed by a man who had snapped some nude photos of the youngest sister while taking bath in Stadium swimming pool.

These girls were really unfortunate, but they could always report it to the police earlier and not to let themselves being tamed by that gangster. Sometimes say is easier that do. I'm not sure how I will handle if the victim is me! I will continue to follow the news to see when the murderer will be found.

Talking It Out With Hubby - Part III

I sms my hubby last midnight, confessing out all those sadness and disappointments that are still in me. I told him that my mother said, if he really thinks that he's moving in my Chew's family ~ Chinese believing of man staying at wife's house, then his 2 children has to follow mummy's surname (CHEW)! My mum heard when we argued and she knows a bit of the story. She's a bit mad too.

Hey, this time is different. He replied my sms by saying sorry for all those that hurt and he promised he'll treat me well from now on. How nice if he could say it in front of me. Anyway, I feel kind of sweet deep in my heart. It should be the end already. I promised that I'll treat him nice too in return.

Talking It Out With Hubby - Part II

Day 1
I was in Chemor last weekend and I didn't bring my laptop along. I didn't talk much with him these 2 days. But his emotion seems to be calm and normal. After dinner on Sat nite, I supposed to talk with him, but he went out for a drink with his friends. He showed his cunning smiling face, saying that he could not bring me out coz had to take care of children. He said,"No choice, I don't want it. I'll accompany you whole day for tomorrow ya. OK??" I just said,"No need to ask me, you just go. Will you really stay if I ask you?" ~~ Of course not la!!!

I didn't know that MIL knows all that had happened. MIL and I had a nice talk. I then complained but she said,"Life for a woman is tough. You have to try to take it and bear with it. Look at your 2 lovely children. Think on behalf of them, just forget about all the sadness. My son is spoilt since he was a child....."

Day 2
Showed a cool face to him the whole day. He said he was going to Lengnong for lunch. He then asked me what I wanted to say to him. I asked him to read my diary in our bedroom. And he did but came back and told me that he also had something to write to me but he didn't want. He was surprised that I agreed to stay with parents IL in new house. I said I'm moving a step backward, but I'll raise up my children with my own way and I want to install drinking water filter once I move back to Chemor. He agreed.

We stayed for another night at Chemor. Some problems are settled but there is still something inside me that hurts. The voice of his scolding using vulgar language kept on refreshing in my mind. It's truly hurt. I can't take the way he react that he's not going to stay even one night at my house although children and I are there.

Talking It Out With Hubby - Part I

He finally called me just now. This time he is in good mood. He talked nicely, a bit like 'pujuk pujuk'..........."where r u ar? wat r u doing ar? have u taken ur dinner?....." but NOT, "don't be angry with me la....."

But we did talk about it. About how rude he was to scold me that night, how an ego man he is, how lonely I was to be dumped at home during CNY, Christmas and NY lately,.....blah blah blah.....He was so shocked that I put up our arguments on blog. He said he does not like. But I told him this is my personal blog........nobody will see except Amy and Shirley...

Although we haven't finished with the discussion, because thru phone, at least I confessed my feelings out to him. I agreed to move in back to Chemor with conditions that I must have a maid first. He agreed. I insist to pay for the maid's monthly salary and told him not to stop me, since he's looking down on me for incapable of earning own money!!!!

This is just part of it. May continue tomorrow coz having dinner with in-laws family.

Another Earning Opportunity

I have activated my new account in http://www.blogsvertise.com and am yet waiting for approval. Once I am approved, I can start earning cash and extra income from my blog. It's easy. Just write some opinions and comments about their website products and services, and blogsvertise will pay me in PayPal per task/blog entry.

All advertising request tasks assigned to me will be received through email. I hope they will approve me very soon......

Feel Hurt & Sad

I want to have a nice talk with hubby tonite. Want to settle or let me express whatever I want him to know. He didn't reply my sms. I don't feel like eating the whole day. Shame to say, I was crying the whole day. Hiding alone in my centre for few hours. I'm worried that I might get gastric, but I really cannot take in the chicken rice. Never feel like this before......

Talk with Amy and Shirley in the evening. At least a bit relieve, even though problem still exists. Shirley is right. Why to worry? I still have my centre. I can always teach to ensure a steady income. Him? He has no constant job and he has no right to take my children away!

End Up In A Divorce??

Both of us really explode this time! He was very angry just now. He called me at 11:40pm just now telling me that he was outside my house and he wanted to go back to Chemor. I used to talk very coldly these while since that Christmas eve. So, as usual, I just say,"Ok lo, since wherever you sleep, it's just the same to me!"

Then, he started to tell a lot of nonsense.....He complaint (in a loud voice),"I like to go home! That's my home! Yours is not my HOME!!! You do not know to be a wife! You should stay in Chemor with me. You do not even cook for me! I rather stroll around the town without doing anything, yet I just don't want to stay at your house!........I hung up in anger.

He then called but I didn't pick up. My son, my mum and bro were all around. I hoped not to argue in front of them. But he insisted to blah blah blah....by calling up my house phone. This made me really angry that I scolded him as well.

Him: Wei Wei is my daughter. I want her to study in Chemor. Y should I plead u to go back #x0*#xx....U dun wan to go back, be it forever...I have money. I can employ 1 maid, 2 maids, even 3 maids.....I HAVE MONEY!!! U didn't even console me when I told u that my business licence is not going to be renewed. U just blame y dun I switch to other business earlier...U try to earn RM500 for me la. Whatever u buy, eat, enjoy are all fr me!

Me : I talk like this is because I'm not really feeling good with u....u never treat me nice and care about me....that makes me fed up of u!

Him: U r wrong all the while. I'm not wrong! U complain a lot of me that made never wan to
have any intimate relationship with u.....

Me : U have mistakes too!! U dun care about my feeling....

Him: If we cannot get along with each other, we divorce la....dun stay along together lo....Or else
u stay at Chemor with me...

..............He eventually hung up.

Divorce is not the case that I care....BUTTTT I just dun wan to be apart with my children. I can't lose them! I'm scared becoz I dun have any earning power for their living....What should I do?? Am in a dilemma now....... Surely this is a sleepless night for me.

Started New Earning Blog!

Announcement to Bloggers who Read this!

I've started my first post on my another blog in www.writingup.com , which enable me to start earning with writing each day. This works with the ads published from Google Adsence on that blog. The end purpose of it is just like we are doing in PayPerPost and Blogsvertise ~ although I'm still waiting for the mature time to get approval for the above site.

I'll send invitation to all my friends thru email, together with my id link. Hoping that they will click on that if they have the interest to write and earn. Of course, with this I can earn some from referral, and earn a bit if they get referral as well.

Better check it out now! I'm starting to earn MONEY already.........

Google Saved A Girl......

I spotted this news and really pleased that Internet is incredible!

This little girl (with her name and age kept as secret), was a victim of child sexual abuse who stay somewhere in Canada. She managed to save herself from evil by using Google Search. By searching 'Kids Help', she got connected with the kids' assistance site in Australia. She sent out email thru the site, saying," Please help me and stop these nightmares to be happened again!"
The police force from Australia, US and Canada took action together into investigating and searching of this little girl. At last, she was saved and are now under protection.

She is really smart. And I really appreciate that Google really works!

Slow Slow Internet

Aiya....what happen?? I can't online much today. The line is very slow like a tortoise but manage to change the template of my blog. Can I have any comments whether this or the previous is better? I can take my rest earlier tonight. So bored and frustrated.....

A Funny Movie

Hubby I went for a movie last night with Shirley and Soon. It was 9:10pm show. I didn't plan for it but I only got to know at around 5:30pm. I wanted to watch the last episode for ‘我的野蛮奶奶’on 'Wah Lai Toi', but no choice, tickets were already bought.

This movie, 'Night At The Museum' is quite a funny show. Don't be deceived by the picture here, it's not scary at all! It's about a man named Larry XXX ~ can't remember his surname, got a job at the museum as a night guard. Guess what? No man will stay for the job after a night at the museum. Strange ya....

Larry went thru the night in a chaos. He discovered that all the ancient properties including animals, natives, wariors, and those cowboys made of wax came to life when night falls. Even the skeleton of dinosaur was running about, wanting to "throw and fetch" with Larry.

There's a funny scene I want to share. Larry met with a big mouth stone face.

Stone face : Dumb dumb, I want Gum Gum!

Larry : You are dumb dumb, I'm not!

Stone face : You are dumb dumb. I want Gum Gum!

......................................

~ they persisted to argue like this for some time...ha ha ha..

There are some more like Larry being bullied by a monkey, called Dexter. A lot a lot more... I enjoy the movie very much.

Happy New Year 2007

Same like Christmas day, I didn't go out for any countdown on New Year eve although I'd love to. I had dinner with my parents and kids at Restaurant 1919. I could see every where was starting to be crowded. Y2K Pub & Bistro is just in front of us. That place was decorated so beautifully with balloons. There was a stage ready with big screen behind and heavy sound system around. There might be performance later. Actually most of the happening places in Ipoh Garden East and Greentown were decorated for business ~ young people there coming out for countdown.

After dinner, I just drove round the town to feel the celebration environment around. Then we all reached home at 10:20pm. Nothing much to do but cleaning up my two kids and sent them to bed. And I'm here now to write for my blog.

There are a few minutes to go before 1st January 2007. Those bloggers who are staying at home now, please cheer together with me ya...
Ready....10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, "HAPPY NEW YEAR" everyone out there!!!