Talking It Out With Hubby - Part III
I sms my hubby last midnight, confessing out all those sadness and disappointments that are still in me. I told him that my mother said, if he really thinks that he's moving in my Chew's family ~ Chinese believing of man staying at wife's house, then his 2 children has to follow mummy's surname (CHEW)! My mum heard when we argued and she knows a bit of the story. She's a bit mad too.
Hey, this time is different. He replied my sms by saying sorry for all those that hurt and he promised he'll treat me well from now on. How nice if he could say it in front of me. Anyway, I feel kind of sweet deep in my heart. It should be the end already. I promised that I'll treat him nice too in return.
3 comments:
Last time i used to argue/fight a lot with my hub, and just like you i always hv the intention to go back my hometown cos i know my family is always there for me! ^.^
Later when we came to the point really tok about divorce. Then we found that deep inside of our heart, we still have love and feelings with each others. Sometimes just both expectations are not met and then spark the argument! My hub even suggest us to meet up a marriage counsellor.
FACES oso a factor i think. However, we hv put effort to rebuild our relationship and it works.
As a woman one thing to remember, we have to learn to love ourself! if we dun love ourself then who we deserve to love or be loved??!! quoted by one of my best friend. (Hi, M22angels, is this sounds familiar? ^^)and thats the time i start to spare sometime for my own , attend yoga class, outing w friends and etc.
Now our relationship grow stronger, eventhough we still have fight sometimes, but usually its over very fast!!
This is only my personal view, if you wanna know more, u can always msn me at mun_90@hotmail.com.
I must say u have 2 lovely kids and a very supportive mother in law too. U r blessed, my friend!! ^.^
glad to hear that ur hubby used his nice voice n talk to u....hoping he will treat u well forever...
CutiePrincessMummy, ur previous experience was exactly the same like mine now. I'll add you in msn and we shall share our opinions with each other. Hope to see you in person one day.
And LovelyMummy, hope that whatever you blessed for me will come true. Thx ya...
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