So Shameful On Hair Colour

Can't tahan anymore....!! Criticised by colleagues in centre this afternoon. They said I look 10 years older, like I've been thru a lot of stress in taking care of own 2 kids. Aiya...cham liao... CNY will be very soon.... How am I going to meet people?? Have to redye again. Darken the base and highlight. Change to another colour... but, what will happen to my hair. Worse liao...do more home treatment from now on. Let the hair cool down for few days then do it. No choice! You all know why I call myself 'Mummy In Vain' lor.....