A Talk With Between Us
We went for a talk in Filling Station at 8pm. We were not alone coz my Wei wanted to follow as well. At first I thought that we may talk it out since hubby says he agreed to rebuild our relationship. By the time we sat down, he showed no interest and just said 'let it works naturally' ~ 顺其自然 , but I insisted to continue.......
I expressed my thoughts but he insisted that I was wrong on the whole. He didn't even agreed that I've been working hard to change myself in improving our relationship. In his mind, he just thought that I shouldn't always cry and be inconsiderable. He is not just egoistic but harsh ( 专制 ) in snatching my right of releasing emotional act or shall I say crying!! He just doesn't want to see people cry.
AIA, our talk has failed. I really have the urge in telling him that I want to separate with him.....分居 ........ still in doubt whether it's a correct thing to do??
I expressed my thoughts but he insisted that I was wrong on the whole. He didn't even agreed that I've been working hard to change myself in improving our relationship. In his mind, he just thought that I shouldn't always cry and be inconsiderable. He is not just egoistic but harsh ( 专制 ) in snatching my right of releasing emotional act or shall I say crying!! He just doesn't want to see people cry.
AIA, our talk has failed. I really have the urge in telling him that I want to separate with him.....分居 ........ still in doubt whether it's a correct thing to do??
6 comments:
Give each other time, think carefully first, ok?
Dear, you've been together for so long and you guys have known each others bahaviour and temper all these while.Why suddenly like this leh?
Probably he is stressed with work or something. My hubby [then bf] also like this. I pushed and pushed and he left me, just like that. No words except "I DON'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE". It was like a knife being stabbed over and over again to my heart. And finally i gave up and i don't know how to cry anymore. Just when i wanted to give up, he came back. He was stressed with his mom's health, job and of cos the last in the list is ME la...So.. here i am now, married to him and we have a baby boy. And still i don't know how to cry nomore.
What i'm trying to say ah ?
Anyway, like what shoppingmum said give each other some time k?
Hi Jacelyn. Sorry to know this. Dun give up easily my dear! Look at the good side if time u couln't get this tru! Think of his good points!! It may not as bad as u think!! Am sure he is a good daddy.
Both of u just need some time to find a way to communicate better or more comfortable. Guys r always like tat, they r less sensitive. Sometimes wat we women think its very important might not necessary w them. Its just some diff bet men or women.
Last time when i always thinking of divorce w my hub, my mum told alwasy remind me! If u left ur man now, din mean u get along w another man later. Samething might happend too. At least, he is not domestic violent, he takes care the kid, u and the rest. Both u only justs need some times to suit urself ur relationship.
I agreed w my mum and am happy i din give up easily. I hope u won't give up too, dear! :)
think carefully before u say it out, seriously..
Take care yeah .. talk again when both is ready and stay calm dun quarrel ..
Thanks guys. Really feel touching to get to see these. I didn't expect to get many of these comments. Now I know there are blogger friends here who care for me.
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